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"Why Have You Made Me Like This?"

7/30/2018

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Good morning ladies. Wow! So good to be back with you after a week (or more) away. We had a great time in Michigan visiting with family and friends, but it was the kind of vacation that you need another vacation afterward to rest! I'm sure you know the feeling. The activity and moving from place to place was certainly abundant! A lot of great memories were made and we have many pictures to prove it! And.....no drama, as can sometimes happen when families get together. We were able to see both my family and PK's family while we were there. We also saw some friends--some who live in Michigan, and also Pearl and her husband Alan, who live in Pennsylvania, but were in Michigan for a wedding. And, we spent a few days up at my parent's cabin in northern Michigan. That was the most relaxing part! So, how are you all doing? Any vacation stories to tell? I can hardly believe how the summer is flying! Almost August already! But, as my hubby reminded me yesterday, it's getting closer to State Fair time!  

Devotion

I think we can all use this reminder from time to time. That God created us in His image, unique and special just the way we are. It's so easy to compare ourselves with others and try to imitate someone we're not, isn't it? I think that accepting ourselves for who we are is a lifelong process. I like her suggestion, though, to help young girls to understand this early on in their lives. Is there someone that you can mentor in this area? Have aMagnificent Monday ladies! 


“Why Have You Made Me Like This?”

“No, don’t say that. Who are you, a mere human being, to argue with God? Should the thing that was created say to the one who created it, ‘Why have you made me like this?’” Romans 9:20 (NLT)

The high-level buzz told the story: The mothers and daughters were thrilled to be enjoying this special time together. My mom and I joined the retreat’s painting workshop, giving a try at something new. Enthralled by a table with several young girls, I wanted to be near their excited energy.
 
Following the teacher’s early instructions, there was chatter and even laughter as each painter created the simple background for our masterpieces. “I can do that!” I thought, studying the example the instructor held up. The storm began to swirl, though, as the easy part ended. Now it was time to try our hand at the details.
 
Trying to make light of a skill I don’t readily possess, I teased with my mom about how my painting was not a re-creation of our teacher’s. For a young girl nearby, it was no joke, though. Frustration began to take over; tears hung on her lower lashes as she tried to keep it together while her painting developed in a way she despised.
 
Suddenly, grabbing her paint brush, her tears became a pot of boiling water and overflowed. She scrubbed her canvas, her brush loaded with black paint, trying her best to ruin what she’d just begun.
 
Her creation was not like the model, and her little spirit could not take the disappointment in herself. She ran from the room. Rushing from her failure, she tried to escape the expectation she’d brought.
 
My heart broke for this dear, sweet little person.
 
If the expert’s example had not been placed in front of her eyes, I thought, she would have known the truth: Her painting was her own unique masterpiece.
 
Instead, she detested what she saw.
 
Don’t we do the same at times?
 
We look at our image in the mirror, the numbers on the screen or the scale, the things we’ve given our lives to that have not turned out the way we thought, and we come to this conclusion: I’m too far from the “model.” Too short of society’s expectations … and our own.
 
Yet our Creator, looking on, is saying to us, the ones He loves:
 
“No, don’t say that. Who are you, a mere human being, to argue with God? Should the thing that was created say to the one who created it, ‘Why have you made me like this?’” (Romans 9:20)
 
We’re not the only ones who struggle. So do the young ones who surround us. With perfection continually before their eyes, their tender spirits can’t take the continual scrutiny of the screen. Maybe this is why recent studies tell us 1 in 5 of today’s teens suffers from depression, and suicide rates practically double during the school year versus the summer.
 
Can’t we help them, friends? Can’t we stand up and say, “Put it down.” Put down the phone. Put away the continual cultural parade. Be done with the daily comparison. Put down society’s definition of ideal. Pick up God’s definition of flawless.
 
Jesus is calling to us all: “Open to me, my treasure, my darling, my dove, my perfect one” (Song of Songs 5:2b, NLT).
 
Let us respond with first putting down our own thoughts, too often far short of our Creator’s, and then model and teach those around us to do the same.
 
Oh, God, I need You. Help me choose to see myself the way You see me, and empower me to share this truth with another person in my sphere of influence. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
 
Proverbs 31 Ministries
Lynn Cowell
 
TRUTH FOR TODAY
 

Genesis 1:27, “So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” (NIV)
 
Ephesians 1:4a, “For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight.” (NIV)

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